Was preparing wedding to be early next year, but now since Jason’s uncle just passed away, we might have to delay it for a year. Meaning late next year.
Initially i was really sore and very upset about the entire delaying. Because before his uncle pass away, we were already planning and organising the hotels. I was really insensitive and unreasonable. We even quarrelled! I had the entire image in my head, and day-dream of the lovely scenarios… and suddenly, it’s *POOF*! 
Was thinking of not holding a wedding dinner initially. But it’s not really what my parents want after much consideration. They said they do not want me to have something missing in life, and look back not having a proper ceremony. Many other reasons too, especially if i am/get pregnant. We discussed and I understand their concerns, and i think they are very right too.
Afterall, having a dinner early next year and later next year… won’t make much of a difference.
I was so unreasonable much earlier. To think of it now, i feel so silly. 
But I am glad i sort things and feelings out.
Besides, I have more time and money to get our new house ready! When the house comes, it will be busy time, renovation, photo shoots, also preparing the wedding dinner, etc etc.
Let’s go through the usual proper customary wedding rituals, etc! 😉
Sure is going to be fun! 
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